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Are You Listening?

“You cannot truly listen to anyone and do anything else at the same time.” ― M. Scott Peck, The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values and Spiritual Growth The following is courtesy of Julien Elia Much ink has been spilled on the importance...

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Sub Par

Sub Par

Above image: President Emmanuel Macron of France, second from left, and Malcolm Turnbull, then prime minister of Australia, third from left, on an Australian submarine during a 2018 visit by Mr. Macron to Sydney.Credit...Ludovic Marin/Agence France-Presse — Getty...

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The Pretender

The Pretender

For fifty years Jackson Browne has rolled out platinum after platinum after platinum. To this day, he has the voice, emotional range, sensitivity, and personal presence that just stick. <MB

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Bacon

Bacon

Works for me! 🙂 5 Actual Health Benefits of Bacon https://www.smokedbbqsource.com/health-benefits-of-bacon/ You're welcome! 😀    

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Cults in America

Yep. Close enough. What Is A Cult? There are thousands of cults in America, some harmless and  some that can be very dangerous.  A cult is a group or movement held together by a shared commitment to a charismatic leader or ideology. It has a belief system that has the...

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Oki’s Anniversary

Oki’s Anniversary

One year ago tonight, this little girl came into my life. She was sick, frail, and half blind, but holding on, and irresistibly cute even in that sorry state. I had to take her. Today she is all good, and all cat. She exceeds both fantasies and nightmares. We’re...

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Eric Johnson – Live From Austin Tx ’88

Eric Johnson – Live From Austin Tx ’88

Eric Johnson - Austin City Limits,1988 Long below the radar, here on Austin City Limits. Still at it, and currently touring. (Additional set links supplied in blue.) Setlist: 01. Righteous 02. Love Or Confusion 03. Steve's Boogie 04. Trail Of Tears 05. Western Flyer...

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Can CBD Really Do All That?

Can CBD Really Do All That?

How one molecule from the cannabis plant came to be seen as a therapeutic cure-all. Excellent coverage, and a must-read for anyone interested in this soon-to-be explosive market. To access the full feature online, via NYTimes subscription, or complimentary access,...

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It’s Not Always the End of the World

It’s Not Always the End of the World

Political prudence isn’t in vogue, but it should be. Via NYTimes, By Greg Weiner May 22, 2019 A quarter-century later, as Lincoln prepared a bold stroke that helped define his own legacy — the Emancipation Proclamation — his annual message to Congress spoke of...

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The End Of Empathy

The End Of Empathy

Via NPR, By Hannah Rosin Militia leader Ammon Bundy, famous for leading an armed standoff in Oregon, had a tender moment in November of last year. He recorded a Facebook post saying that perhaps President Trump's characterization of the migrant caravan on the...

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Introspection

Introspection From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Introspection is the examination of one's own conscious thoughts and feelings. In psychology, the process of introspection relies exclusively on observation of one's mental state, while in a spiritual context it may...

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Again…Measles

Again…Measles

Measles Cases Surpass 700 as Outbreak Continues Unabated The outbreak is now the worst in decades. Children under age 5 account for about half of the cases. Via NYTimes, By Donald G. McNeil Jr. April 29, 2019 Measles continues to spread in the United States, federal...

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Measles Q & A

Measles Q & A

  Measles Outbreak: All The Questions You Want Answers To Via NYTimes, By Pam Belluck and Adeel Hassan Updated on April 25 The United States is having its worst year for measles since the disease was declared eliminated in the country in 2000. Federal health...

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Pink Floyd – Shine On You Crazy Diamond

Pink Floyd – Shine On You Crazy Diamond

David Gilmour still tours, and still performs tight sets that live up to the best of Progressive Rock's golden age. Nowadays, he tours mostly without the original members of Pink Floyd, but, he always includes exceptional musicians in the entourage. Here he is with...

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Please Recycle Your Batteries

Please Recycle Your Batteries

Lots of batteries get recycled. Lots don't. Take alkaline batteries, for instance. You know, the double, triple A, C,, and D batteries many of us use? Do you know there is only one state that requires alkaline batteries to be recycled? Of course, its California. For...

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We

We

As I am apt to do, I think about big picture life in quiet moments. Especially when I am in a pleasant environment around nature. I thought about what I wanted life to be, wished it would be, hoped it was underneath all of the overlays of existence. Its overwhelming...

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Is Betomania Real or Phony?

Is Betomania Real or Phony?

A fair portrait of Beto’s current status, and his reception. The piece is long, but I found it useful, and worth digesting to round out his picture. As for me, I lean Nay on his chances for nomination, let alone beating Drumpf. Beto strikes me as a Bernie wannabe...

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Self Awareness

Self Awareness

Here's today's self improvement post. Courtesy of the Pathway to Happiness website. I think there's valuable instruction here that all of us can use. Creating Happiness is done in many steps. Only with self awareness can we see where our steps are taking us. Self...

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What Is Brexit?

What Is Brexit?

Oh, alright! Here's what you need to know. Now you can have a conversation with somebody about this mess, and seem all...I dunno...intelligent? Happy now? But, if you really want to know what the deal is, according to me, make sure you read my thoughts about...

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Living Honestly

Living Honestly

To live honestly, is to spend quiet time with ourselves doing nothing but thinking about life, and what we feel about it. Deeply, honestly, I don’t mean some few random minutes of thumbnail introspection, whilst in the throes of passion, perhaps during a conflict or...

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Romantic Love Between Two People

Romantic Love Between Two People

Love, to Me... Everyone is entitled to their own definition. Some may abide by more liberal views. Some are more constrained. Some of us put weight in demonstrative actions. Others treasure words, and expressions. The ways we develop, recognize, and show romantic...

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Trump’s Problem…Mostly

Trump’s Problem…Mostly

Thinking, about this headline. Thinking, I agree. Thinking, that one, one of the key issues for my distaste of Trump, may very well have been his association with the Right side of government, and it’s ideology. In this regard, the question to all of us left of center...

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No Process. No Progress

No Process. No Progress

It certainly is true that Brexit, and the relationship with the EU is complicated. But, the reasons why this leave/don’t leave conflict has become a two year long fiasco mess that it is today, is not as complicated. The general public, the voting masses of citizens,...

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How to Foster Empathy in Children

This is a very serious problem that is surely underestimated in its negative societal impacts. Children lacking empathy grow into adults lacking it. Once in adulthood, empathy is much harder to teach and appreciate. More focus needs to be placed on this with children,...

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George Bush and the Obituary Wars

Enjoyed this... We like our villains without redemption and our heroes without blemish. What happened to shades of gray? By Frank Bruni, NYTimes Dec. 4, 2018 On Twitter over the weekend, the television writer Bryan Behar did something unconscionable. He praised George...

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How Far America Has Fallen

Excellent. To be understood by anyone still puzzled and looking for answers. The thing with every shocking revelation about Trump is that it's already baked into his image. I've never met a Trump supporter who did not know exactly who he is. By Roger Cohen,...

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How Trump Won Re-election in 2020

A sneak peek at the Times’s news analysis from Nov. 4, 2020. President Trump at a Make America Great Again rally in Duluth, Minn., on June 20 Really good. Are Democratic power brokers and lead pols smart enough to see this now? If not, check back here and see how...

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Belief is not Truth

Understand the new environment we are all in regarding the fight for credible news reporting, and the lack of visible sourcing. Most especially, this is evident in the new distributors of news and information, that live entirely online, and have no legacy of...

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Dogs

Dogs

Dogs Pink Floyd You gotta be crazy, you gotta have a real need You gotta sleep on your toes, and when you're on the street You gotta be able to pick out the easy meat with your eyes closed And then moving in silently, down wind and out of sight You gotta strike when...

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The Only Way to Live

To live honestly, is to spend quiet time with ourselves doing nothing but thinking about life, and what we feel about it. Deeply, honestly, I don’t mean some few random minutes of thumbnail introspection, whilst in the throes of passion, perhaps during a conflict or...

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Malapropism

Malapropism From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia A malapropism (also called a malaprop or Dogberryism) is the use of an incorrect word in place of a word with a similar sound, resulting in a nonsensical, sometimes humorous utterance. An example is the statement by...

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Edges

Edges

We all have strong protective edges. They help us forge on, against friction in life. When challenges arise, or things get difficult, the edges come out of our psychological sheaths, to cut through the resistance. On the other hand, when they become locked behind...

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The Silence of the Democrats

OpEd from the NYTimes By MICHAEL TOMASKY  OCTOBER 29, 2017 A recent speech by George W. Bush made headlines for its pointed criticisms of Donald Trump, but there was something else he said that I found far more compelling. As soon as he finished his thank-yous and his...

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Quotes

Quotes

I wonder if we could love passionately, if ecstasy would be possible at all, if we knew we'd never die. —Abraham Maslow   “Where is wisdom we have lost in knowledge? Where is the knowledge we have lost in information?” —T.S Eliot   The mind learns by doing....

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The Trump Doctrine

The Trump Doctrine

So many citizens of this great country voted for this Bull-in-a-China-Shop President. The substantial forces of racism and xenophobia, sadly contributed greatly to this train wreck election, but many of the other Trump supporters hold self defeating tendencies by...

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Arturo Toscanini

Arturo Toscanini

Arturo Toscanini retired from the NBC orchestra before I saw him perform live, but later on in the 1960s, NBC had showed reruns of these famed orchestra performances. I watched them as a young boy, and was riveted by the music, and by Toscanini. After reading a recent...

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Long Strange Trip

Long Strange Trip

Most entertaining. If you were just half a Grateful Dead fan, you will breeze through all six episodes. Every interview has intelligent and thoughtful accountings of the odyssey of the Grateful Dead. The depth was unexpected. Tons of great unearthed footage and...

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Jimmy Carter and Bill Clinton

Jimmy Carter and Bill Clinton

The impressive output of life work done by both Jimmy Carter and Bill Clinton after they left office is unchallengeable, if not extraordinary. No matter what their political or personal failures had been as Presidents, nor their mistakes in calculating complex...

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It’s Chicken or Fish

As Tom Friedman points out in the fourth paragraph, "The G.O.P. never would have embraced someone like Trump in the first place...; all the good men and women in this party’s leadership have been purged or silenced; those who are left have either been bought off by...

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Trump Does War

Trump Does War

People who understand global dynamics can be nothing but alarmed. All the rest don't understand the words. Many of Trump's supporters make vigorous arguments about how he's going to fix their country. That’s all well and good, but they don't seem to give thoughtful...

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Spells

Spells

I've become a man of spells lately... Dizzy spells Hearing spells. Headache spells Vision spells. Equilibrium spells Orientation spells. Loss of Memory spells Spells of spells... I think I know what it is, what they are. Or, I don't know what it is. Somehow none of...

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School’s Out/Barely In

School’s Out/Barely In

What's up with the half school days here? Not one to miss an opportunity to recite yet another "When I was a kid…." story, I have to say how annoyed I am with the public school system here in CT. I also can't miss another opportunity to clarify that I am not a native...

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Live Longer

Dramatic medical progress and scientific breakthroughs all point convincingly to human beings living much longer in the coming decades and beyond. Below is a quick glance at the projected outcomes of what to expect in the near and not-to-distant future. Life Span -...

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Do We Always Forgive?

Do we always forgive? The question came to me in a dream last night. There was/is no clear trigger, or connection to my conscious state. At least not in a direct way. Symbolism? Well, we could go on all day about that with dream content. Been thinking a lot about it…...

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TRUMP WINS??!!

TRUMP WINS??!!

With his election to President of the United States, Donald Trump, amazingly, has risen higher than most of us, maybe even he, thought he ever could. President of the United States, Donald Trump! If anybody thought his insatiable ego was through the roof before, it is...

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On Protest Voting and Non Voters

The outcries against Hillary Clinton are loud and clear. Excluding the obvious Trump supporter, Hillary's most vocal detractors are roughly divided amongst three groups, some of which can overlap. 1) Lowly educated voters, "some" of whom, are racists, misogynistic,...

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Walking In Nature

Since moving to Connecticut, I have discovered how important it is to take time to escape the stress associated with noise, and unsightly visuals of over-development, sprawl, relentless commercialism, and worst of all, litter, and filth. I discovered the value of...

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New York Dealer

New York Dealer

I interviewed these guys for a "personal project" video doc I produced in the heights of urban cocaine use, 1981. All the years since, I still contain the same mixture of impulses ranging from laughter, puzzlement, confusion, to complete bafflement. This group of...

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What Is Hidden

When I was a little kid, I used to hear people say the world is not fair, people will screw you over, nice guys finish last, you can’t succeed if you don’t step on other people. I always had trouble with these statements. I thought they were coming from people who...

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There is No Free Internet

The concept and vision of "net neutrality" is easily expressed. Its far more difficult to protect, given the manipulative tendencies of corporate behavior, and millions spent on lobbying. Cell providers and internet giants never do anything without profit, and/or...

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Doctor’s Consultation

(Overheard almost verbatim in a doctor's exam room next door.) Doctor Spencer: So, you have two children now? Patient Montana: No, Doctor. I have four. Doctor: You just told me you had two children. Patient: Those were just the ones living with me. Doctor: I see. So,...

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Cautious Dating

Rules for Women Meeting Blind Dates 1) Make sure you meet in a public place, preferably one that has a bathroom with a large window to climb out of. 2) The first chance you get, accidentally drop your can of mace from your purse so he can see it. Then, pick it up and...

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Not Feeling Well?

What's a short trip to the doctor's office? Go ahead. Go! Better safe, than sorry. In Alphabetical Order  ANTHRAX AVIAN FLU BELLS PALSY BIRD FLU BRAIN TUMOR BRUCELLOSIS BUBONIC PLAGUE CHOLERA CROHN'S DISEASE DENGUE FEVER DETACHED RETINA DIABETES (IDIOPATHIC) DIPTHERIA...

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Passion

Passion

It's about time I conquered my demons and finally decided to live my life the way I want to, not the way other people see me, or think I should be. Damnit! Life is too short to waste precious days, hours, minutes, seconds doing anything but what beats within my heart...

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How to Choose a Spouse

This chart is kind of a joke, but it was inspired by a similar one I saw in an issue of Psychology Today on how to make decisions.  I'm wondering if there's anything on this I should apologize for. Finances? Hm...maybe. Tough one. I'm thinking there's not. Its gender...

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Catch and Release

Catch and Release

Similar to Her, my first one-sentence stream written a year before this one, Catch and Release brought out from me another spontaneous flow of words about, well...okay...yes...another woman. I remember this one being more practiced, as a second to an original always...

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Her

Her

Further back than I care to accept, before I moved out of NYC, but right on the cusp of my exit to supposed greener pastures, I pulled into a gas station in the Bronx community of Riverdale. I just stood there watching her walk back to the pump, as I filled my tank. I...

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Phono Needle Screech

So, I tell you this. You tell me that. We meet, share a table, smile, laugh, flirt, go to the movies, say good night, share another table, watch the sunset, kiss, have sex, have breakfast, and presto, we have someone who gives a damn for some indeterminate period of...

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Arnold Calls an Escort Service

I know this is stupid, sophomoric and the lowest level of creative sharing, but I gotta put this somewhere, and you guys are the lucky winners. If you're an Arnold fan, you'll laugh. If you're not, you'll sit there and probably mumble to yourself. Perhaps in a nagging...

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Men Without Paint

Click for feature story. In order to successfully complete the Certificate Program for Desktop Publishing at CUNY in New York, I had to prove proficiency in the layout skills I was taught. I chose to create a magazine column layout with a feature story and images. The...

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Why Won’t They Listen

In 2004, mid way through the Bush v Gore Presidential campaign, my sister and I started feeling uncomfortable with each other. It actually included her husband too, but he didn't disturb me as much. It was Cindy who bothered me the most. Because, well, she was/is my...

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Are You In Sync?

  What does it mean to be in sync? Particularly with another person. I've been thinking about how hard it is to connect with certain friends by phone. Just to say hello. For these particular friends, it's not easy at all. We often call each other's voice mails,...

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Cat Litter…again.

Cat Litter…again.

Cleaning the litter box is not what it used to be. Does anybody know what I mean? Pooky is fifteen. That's a long time cleaning up someone's poop every day. I mean, really. Cleaning up someone's poop with a scoop that puts your hands only inches away from a substance...

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Extra Virgin Suicide

Extra Virgin Suicide

Here is an excellent illustrated interactive time line produced by Nicholas Blechman of the New York Times, about what has, and is going on in the world of EVOO.  Personally, I am suspicious of many so called "high end" food products' origins and quality. Our own U.S....

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